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"hi! i'm looking for a fic where everyone in beacon hills forgets about/loses their memories of derek. thus, the sheriff and his new deputy thinks there's something wrong with stiles bc he keeps mentioning this derek person. the new deputy takes advantage of stiles and gets on the sheriff's side. it ends with stiles taking medication and the new deputy as his new boyfriend. stiles is comforted by the new deputy. at the end of the fic, derek is driving past the 'welcome to beac"

eternalsterekrecs:

Heya there! We can’t remember this one, sadly. Does anyone know it?

"hi!! i'm super desperate in finding this fic and was wondering if you could help me? i've sent asks to lost fic tumbles but idk if they'll get to my ask and wanted to see if you have time to help. basically, the plot is: everyone in beacon hill loses their memory of derek. stiles is the only one who remembers. sheriff thinks something's wrong w stiles, sends his new deputy to check him. new dep says stiles is talking about smone who doesn't exist. fic ends w stiles taking meds w new dept as bf."

cywscross:

Hmm I don’t think I know this one, I don’t read much Sterek anymore. Does anybody else recognize it?

LOST STEREK FIC HELP

i’m looking for a fic where everyone in beacon hills forgets about derek except stiles. they all lose their memory of derek, and derek isn’t even in beacon hills.

the sheriff and his new deputy thinks there’s something wrong with stiles. stiles is trying to deal with how derek broke his heart, etc. he goes to the jungle a lot to cope.

the new deputy takes advantage of stiles and gets on the sheriff’s side by trying to take care of stiles. the fanfic ends with stiles taking medication and the new deputy as his new boyfriend. stiles is comforted by the new deputy.

at the very end of the fic, derek is driving past the ‘welcome to beacon hills’ sign and the new deputy feels derek coming through the magic barrier goes 'aren’t you in for a surprise.’

czechs-and-holdings:

schuetzengrabenmints:

schuetzengrabenmints:

schuetzengrabenmints:

Let’s ditch self-deprecating memes in 2018

Stop the “lol I don’t deserve friends,” “I just want to die,” “I’m a trash can” bullshit

we positive in 2018 baby

Wow look 11,000 notes and 99% of them are overreactions or the same jokes over and over again!

“OMG it’s called a coping mechanism?!”

Yeah, so is alcohol, but that doesn’t mean it’s healthy. 

Why is this website so against trying to be happy? 

And it’s not like you’re saying, “You can just will your depression away.” It’s just, “Hey, maybe don’t encourage self-destructive thinking, even in a joking way.” 

hookayy:

if you’re cute and over your ex hmu

Take Your Gatekeeping and Shove It.

valeria2067:

So, this past weekend, I took my 11-year-old daughter to SuperCon to meet her favorite actor (and favorite Doctor), Peter Capaldi.

She wore a little blue TARDIS-decorated dress and some Doctor Who pins, and she nearly cried with joy when Capaldi greeted her for the photo op. He was a consummate gentleman and such a sweet and enthusiastic person.

An hour or so after the wonderful photo op experience, she and I were sitting at a table in the food court area.

A burly, older man plopped down nearby.  He looked at my little girl’s outfit, smiled, and said, “Do you even KNOW anything about Doctor Who?”

WTF, dude?

I was too stunned for a second to even respond, so he started right in with the ‘quizzing.’

“Who are the Doctor’s biggest enemies, and what planet does he come from?” this stranger asked.

Now I had moved past shocked and right into indignant/angry/protective mode.

“I don’t want her to be quizzed on something she loves, because I don’t want her thinking she has to prove ANYthing in order to be a fan,“ I told him.

Looking at my daughter, I said “You don’t owe strangers explanations or information, ok?“  She said OK and looked relieved.

Still he pressed on, patronizing grin and all: “Oh, I just want to be sure parents are raising their kids right.” Then he turned to my daughter again and asked “Who was the first Doctor, then?”

I cut him off right there. “No. I don’t want her quizzed. At all.”

Dude blinked in disbelief, sighed, and left about a minute later.

“Thanks,” my daughter said. “He was making me feel awkward.”

I held her hand and looked into her eyes. “Some men think they can have power over you by making you prove yourself. You never have to do it. They’re just insecure and pitiful, so they want to make you feel like it, too.  It’s not only about fan stuff, and it’s not always just men, but be careful not to fall into that trap, ok?”

That crap isn’t harmless fun. It sets up a pattern of approval-seeking, self-justification, self-doubt, and fear of exclusion that is very dangerous for children (particularly girls).

Fuck that.

TL;DR:  Do NOT come at me, my little girl, or anyone in my vicinity with your condescending, gatekeeping bullshit.

The next time, I won’t make the mistake of even TRYING to be polite.

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Originally posted by tum-binha

ok but “It sets up a pattern of approval-seeking, self-justification, self-doubt, and fear of exclusion that is very dangerous for children (particularly girls).” though HOLY SHIT IT’S SO TRUE (i see it in myself and a lot of my own friends)

Productive Things That Aren’t Studying

annabaestudying:

  • washing the dishes
  • making your bed
  • tidying your book/dvd shelf/shelves
  • cleaning the cupboard/wardrobe
  • reading
  • sleeping
  • writing a blog
  • planning your month/week/day
  • replying to messages or asks
  • responding to emails
  • sorting through letters/mail
  • clearing your email inbox
  • organising stationery
  • clean your sinks
  • clean your toilets
  • pet your pet
  • sort through old clothes
  • give to charity
  • go on a walk
  • go on a run
  • clean down any surfaces
  • work out
  • meal prep
  • get rid of empty shampoo bottles from the shower
  • clean out old food from the cupboard/fridge
  • empty out your school bag
  • call your parent
  • unfriend/unfollow people you no longer interact with
  • watch a TEDTalk
  • empty the bins/trash
  • clean the mirrors in your house
  • hug your pet
  • wash some clothes
  • buy any birthday cards/presents that you need to
  • reply to any old texts
  • make a tumblr post on productive things that aren’t studying

phrases:

“as fuck” is my favorite unit of measurement

rosewillow82:

otabckaltyn:

In class today, Trump was somehow brought up and someone said that Trump was a neo-nazi and my professor was like, “Trump hasn’t ever said he was a neo-nazi” and another kid said, “I was still gay before I started calling myself gay!” and realized what he said and he looked just mortified but it was the greatest response to anything I’ve ever heard

When trump makes you so angry that you ram down the closet door to call out some bs

bristudiespsych:

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Today, I will be giving you some tips that I use to help me get an amazing grade on my essays! it is important to understand not everything is about getting an A, sure it is amazing but all you need to focus on is improving from your previous grade!! 

PLAN! firstly I can not stress this enough, so many people do not plan and just write their essay, to then realise they are completely off topic and have to restart! I live by the quote “failing to plan, is planning to fail”

  1. start by writing the essay question out on paper, then create a mindmap/brainstorm of the subject area, possible topic sentences/ideas/facts 
  2. secondly, write some of your thoughts on the general topic, from different aspects and scopes, you can list words or ideas that will sound good in your essay
  3. look through any criteria sheets, lectures/tutorial slides discussing the assignment, your notes, that are relevant to your assignment, then write all this information in one place.
  4. then have a look on google scholar or whatever books, journal articles, websites, or any sources deemed appropriate by your lecturer/teacher. It is so important to note where you found your sources, it will help you so much later! 
  5. once you have finished that, calculate how many words are an appropriate amount per paragraph. for example,  if you have a 1500 word essay, with 5 body paragraphs including an introduction and conclusion then you should give the body paragraphs 250 words, the introduction 150, and the conclusion 100 words. it doesn’t matter if it is exact or notes, just use it as a general guide!
  6. USE A PRINTABLE!! you can check out mine.
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I hope this helps you to plan your essay! if you want to see how to write an essay, or helpful resources, send me a ask/message or dm me on insta!

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